Elinor Nauen

Here to report that every single block in my area now has a backery. There is also a new restaurant, sandwich joint, takeout specialty (one with dumplings, another with Korean dumplings, a third with vegetarian Korean dumplings) on more or less every block. Trendy bars! A place that sells only Irish soda bread (loaves or scones, take yer choice). You certainly wouldn't think of the economy is tanking from all the hubbub in the East Village. 

I think that horrible woman at the Post Office (OMG I wrote Poet Office) threw away my magazines - I know they haven't all arrived. 

And people at that (MY) post office do actual crimes! In case the link doesn't work, there was an attempted rape after a party, on camera, on the street, by idiots: "When officers responded to the 911 call, prosecutors said, they found Mr. Alcala and Mr. Chou sitting in the front of the mail truck. They refused to step outside the vehicle or to open the back of the truck, and told officers there was no one back there. But the officers could hear banging and screams for help coming from the back of the truck, prosecutors said. Mr. Jean then emerged from the back with his pants unzipped, and when officers went inside they found the woman with her pants also undone."

Was at the Grolier Club last night for the launch of Granary Books' After Words: Visual and Experimental Poetry in Little Magazines and Small Presses, 1960–2025. "This book offers a visual and thematic journey through avant-garde, concrete, visual, and experimental poetics as they appeared in ephemeral little magazines and small press publications from the 1960s onward." The exhibit from the book (probably the other way round: the book is the catalogue for the show) at the Grolier Club will be there until July 26, with several talks and discussions. 

I was around for 2/3rds of the time the show covers & admit I had never heard of many or most of the presses or magazines. I was at the bottom rung of production values: the magazine I co-edited had construction paper covers & blurry photography, what little of it there was. 

One of the two authors, the brilliant enthusiast M.C. Kinniburgh, has in her bio that she's a member of the Grolier. The young friend I took with me, who is interested in & tracks down everything, told me there's a Reddit thread on how one gets invited to join the Grolier. It's for book collectors, dealers, & the like; more than that I do not know. 

I expected more ceremony, given that Louis & I had been talking about this for at least 2 years. They come with a bin, not a vault, we dumped in 8 or so boxes of papers, he took it away & that was that. Goodbye to 1980s tax returns! Goodbye to ancient bank accounts! Goodbye to mail. I don't know what Lou was getting rid of, work stuff. It cost $175 + tax & they came right to our door without excitement. One step forward for Swedish death cleaning & I have a little extra space in my office. 

A tradition is kept alive only by something being added to it.

~ Henry James

I was at a great seder except it lacked young people. How do you carry on a tradition without someone to hand it to? A culture needs both tradition & the individual to make sense of it & set it on fire, as the case may be. 

On the plane back from Sioux Falls by way of MSP in February, I had a deep conversation with the young man sitting next to me, while we circled in the snow over NYC & finally didn't land at Boston. He was brilliant & gathered & wove huge heaps of knowledge from every direction. He's a classical pianist & is in some sort of hiphop/jazz group as well - his musical interests resembled his intellectual in being farflung & interrelated. He told me he was playing at Merkin Hall on April 17 & so I discovered his name: Mikael Darmanie (rhymes with harmony?) & went to see him last night. He played an hour of eclectic "Piano Dialogues" that included Schubert, Duke Ellington, Bartók, & half a dozen others, including 2 pieces he wrote. Riveting & I loved that he wanted us to feel the farflung, interrelated connections among centuries & genres. 

I didn't at all assume that he would remember me - I didn't know if he had even seen my face on the plane, in fact - so I began, You probably don't remember me, & he instantly said, the plane from Minnesota, you're the author, we had that beautiful conversation.

So he got even more points. 

I hope we become friends but even if we don't, I cherish the chance meeting & getting my mind blown open a little by all that the world contains. 

Who told me this morning that he has loved me for over half his (very long) life. I can't do the math in return but it's a lot of years of being enthralled & amused & swept away by the "man's man & a woman's dream" that is Johnny. 

A movie about a rescued penguin who proceeds to rescue all the humans around him, without being heart-warming. That's a tough thing to pull off, even if it's set in 1970s Argentina at the beginning of the brutal, murderous military dictatorship. Steve Coogan was perfect as the English teacher who drifted into a hoity-toity boys' boarding school in Buenes Aires, and the penguin should get an Oscar. I never want to say too much about a movie except to say see it or skip it. The Penguin Lessons: See it! 

Some poems of mine are now up in the swell online journal R&R, accompanied by the elegant, sunny art of Baltimore artist Mason Owens.  

The poet is a liar who always speaks the truth.

~ Jean Cocteau

One of our students at English in Action asked why her friend laughed when she said she was going to start drinking at noon & would meet her a few hours later. We finally figured out that to say "let's go drinking" or "to start drinking" means that the drinking is the point. By contrast, to suggest "let's meet for a drink" is suggesting a meet up, with alcohol incidental - it's the getting together that's the point. The Russian repeated my "let's have a drink" as "let's get together for a few drinks." His idea of a drink was to have a few of them. He didn't even hear himself editing it. Russian drinking culture. 

I started my project of getting to know New York City by taking the 7 train to 103 St-Corona Plaza and walking a few blocks to the Louis Armstrong House Museum. You can take a tour of his actual house but I stayed across the street at the really well done visitors center & learned a lot about his life and influence. My favorite single item was a 6-page hand-written letter about living on the block for 29 years. He described the neighborhood kids watch him "ooze" out of his garage in his Cadillac and follow him to the Chinese restaurant, where they asked for so many autographs that his food was cold, & he had to go home where his wife fried up a dagwood sandwich for him.

I never was all that crazy about his music, kinda corny, though I know it's brilliant and foundational, but I sure am crazy about him. What an ambassador for love and fairness. 

The neighborhood I walked through was almost entirely Hispanic, & from the shop signs, largely from South America. According to the demographics I looked up, Corona is roughly 75% Hispanic, 10% each Asian & Black, and 5% white. 

Having a leisurely & delicious breakfast at Balthazar with an old friend reminded me of going there once, long enough ago that baseball news was finally in the Times at the end of a baseball-less winter. It was snowing softly & I had a bowl of thick hot chocolate. And it was my birthday. Today it was eggs, coffee, & good conversation with plenty of laughing. The man next to us ate a sticky bun & a plate of bacon.

I've lived in New York long enough that the sibillant Puerto Rican accent that was ubiquitous in my neighborhood & that I hardly hear any more is just as nostalgic as the soft Lakota accent of my childhood. It's the madeleine of my ear. 

You can cut the branches of the tree of liberty, but you can't destroy the roots because they are too strong and too many.
~ Toussaint L'Ouverture (1743-1803), Haitian revolutionary 

I dreamed my cat, Lefty, asked me to call him Mr. Money when we were out in public. I was carrying him in my arms down 10th Avenue at the time. 

What a difference a week makes. Last week I was singing the praises of my post office & today I got the most horrible employee I have ever encountered in any business or context. She yelled at me for believing what her coworker told me, told me different things, including that my large envelope is not a large envelope, said it was $4.63 not $4.61 and I should just walk away she couldn't help me, wasn't wearing her required name tag & refused to tell me her name. Oh, I am not going to relive how rude she was. She has given me a hard time every single time I have had the misfortune to be in her line. What is her problem? What a miserable life she must lead. 

They say all of us are "temporarily abled" (if that). That we should prepare for illness, accident, disfigurement, paralysis ~ you know, all that human flesh is heir to. Until that day, like the day we die, we kind of expect to be an exception, right? I've been fine for mumble-mumble years. Instead of thinking that the odds are getting shorter of something happening, I think the odds are longer of things continuing as they've been. Despite being an accountant's daughter, I also think that the odds are always 50-50: either I win or I lose. Ah, we have glided to the safe, delightful harbor of numbers & away from the messy, embarrassing, self-pitying swamp of disease. I'm fine now, I really am. 

On Monday afternoon at around 3, I strongly felt like I had to go home. I never leave early but I guess for once I "listened to my body" & packed it in. Good thing. As soon as I got home, I "kastet opp," which is I bet not too Norwegian to get the gist without me getting lurid. (I'm looking at you, Michael Angelo frozen eggplant parm for breakfast.) Then I felt crappy & tired & then I felt better & then I didn't feel like doing anything even though I did feel pretty much OK & then I did my laundry & I guess I'm back from the near-dead, which is really the most disspiritng place to be & I see why all my female relatives are fine & then die at age 97 ~ the minute something goes wrong, they (I) don't see the point of continuing. O world, you had best hope I never become chronically ill or even sick for more than a couple of days. I will wear out my welcome from even my most devoted friends.