A hole in the toe instead of a mate. This was easy to toss but not everything has been. Nonetheless we're doing it.
It's either clean or move & apartments are too bloody expensive to move. We are each spending 10 minutes a day evaluating & throwing out as much as possible - clothes, papers, books, puzzling items that kept getting put aside till we could figure out what they are for. Out they go.
I figure this process could take a few months although, a week in, I am starting to notice little bare patches.